The Candidate's Herobracelets -- Honoring Our Fallen -- Father Asks Obama To Stop

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There was a moment in last Friday's debate when Sen John McCain held up his wrist and told the audience that he was given that bracelet by the family of Cpl Mathew Stanley, and that he would not allow Cpl Stanley's sacrifice to be in vain.

Sen Obama immediately interrupted Sen McCain, pointing out that he too wore a bracelet to honor a fallen hero, then as he flailed for words, deftly held the bracelet up to read the name off the bracelet.

That moment in time, better than anything else during the debate, captured the differences between the two candidates. Substance over style, Sen McCain demonstrates why he connects with the people, while Sen Obama appears aloof and uninvolved, unable even to remember the soldier he presumably honors.

Sen McCain was first given that bracelet, which appears to be a "Herobracelet," while on the campaign trail back in March. It was given to Sen McCain by Lynn Savage, the mother of Cpl Stanley while he was campaigning in New Hampshire during the primaries. The 22 year-old Cpl Savage was killed in Iraq last year.

Sen McCain began wearing his bracelet at that time, but did not begin discussing it with reporters until asked about it. That fact alone demonstrates that it was a matter of character and caring, and not a publicity stunt to garner support on the campaign trail.

When asked by reporters about the bracelet, Sen McCain said, "It means any political ambitions of mine pale in comparison to the sacrifice that nearly 4,000 family members have made."

In his speech at the Republican National Convention he mentioned his bracelet again. "I fight for the family of Matthew Stanley of Wolfeboro, New Hampshire," he said. "Matthew died serving our country in Iraq. I wear his bracelet and think of him every day. I intend to honor their sacrifice by making sure the country their son loved so well and never returned to remains safe from its enemies."

I have not been able to find any information regarding when Sen Obama began wearing his bracelet, or exactly how it came to be given to him. The name on that bracelet is that of Sgt Ryan David Jopek of Merrill, WI.

Incredibly, the father of Sgt Jopek has asked Sen Obama to STOP wearing his son's bracelet and to stop politicizing his son's death, but the good senator continues to do so.

Warner Todd Huston at Newsbusters, writes:

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Radio host Glenn Moberg of the show "Route 51" asked Mr. Jopek, a man who believes in the efforts in Iraq and is not in favor of Obama's positions on the war, what he and his ex-wife think of Obama continually using their son's name on the campaign trail.

Jopek began by saying that his ex-wife was taken aback, even upset, that Obama has made the death of her son a campaign issue. Jopek says his wife gave Obama the bracelet because "she just wanted Mr. Obama to know Ryan's name." Jopek went on to say that "she wasn't looking to turn it into a big media event" and "just wanted it to be something between Barack Obama and herself." Apparently, they were all shocked it became such a big deal.

But, he also said that his ex-wife has refused further interviews on the matter and that she wanted Obama to stop wearing the reminder of her son's sacrifice that he keeps turning into a campaign soundbyte.

Sen McCain wears his bracelet at the request of the family of a fallen hero, as a constant reminder of his duty to ensure that his death was not in vain. Sen Obama wears his bracelet as a political ploy, against the wishes of the soldier's family. Where exactly is the Mainstream Media reporting on this?

On an ironic note, a POW bracelet was discovered in June, bearing the name of Sen John McCain. While cleaning out the attic of his deceased mother's home, Leon Abbott found the copper bracelet that his mother wore for more than three years.

"She was instrumental in launching the POW/MIA movement, and it turns out the bracelet she wore was John McCain's," Abbott told NBC News in discussing his mother, Sarah Abbott. "Pure coincidence. I was pretty amazed."

From NBC News:

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Sarah Abbott and millions of other Americans began wearing the copper bracelets in 1970 to draw attention to the plight of U.S. service members missing or taken prisoner in Vietnam. She wore hers until McCain and his fellow POWs were released by North Vietnam in 1973.

Pundits have called Friday's debate performance between the two presidential candidates a "draw." But as demonstrated by the comparison of bracelets, on substance, it was a clear win for Sen McCain.

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for this mother's wishes completely fazes me, but I'm not too surprised.

Excellent post!

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Jaded's picture

he wants his own "military" under the auspices of "community" commando's.....I despise this human being and I say that because he is no man.

Whoever has his enemy at his mercy & does not destroy him is his own enemy

Just as I was getting my hopes up, I ran into this.

That interview from the father was from March 20.

this link is from May 10, 2008:

http://www.madison.com/tct/news//285632

Tracy Jopek, who lives in Merrill, has been an Obama backer since the Illinois senator announced his candidacy for president last year.

"I believe he will lead us in the right direction, he will tell us the truth and be upfront and honest with us," says Jopek.

She continues to choke up when Obama mentions her Ryan on the campaign trail, as the presumptive Democratic nominee frequently does.

"To know that he does know his name," Jopek says of the senator and her son. "It means a lot."

UNLESS, we can find sources that show that the mother changed her mind AFTER May 2008, not before, it doesn' t look like this will hold water

Steve Foley's picture

The story as written has plenty of "legs"

66chevelle's picture

Obama either brazenly invoked the bracelet, knowing he would get a pass in the MSM, or his camp got to mom and persuaded her to be a good trooper for The Cause. Dad is spitting in the wind against these people.

Don't look for McCain to make an issue of it, because he's too classy to politicize this any further. It's all in the hands of a few right-wing blogs, and that's as far as it will go.

Obama will continue to wear the bracelet, but he has gotten his mileage out of it and will never speak of it again. This is not Kerry's medals over a fence. This is a life lost and a memory.

It's just one more stain on Obama's character for those of us who know him well enough already..

speciallist's picture

And now that school is started...we are gonna be Sick all the time..lol

"40 million American households that read TMR are generally happier
than those people in households that don't read TMR."

66chevelle's picture

And now we've got a head lice outbreak at all the local schools...don't remember that ever being a problem at school when I was a kid...hmmmm. My son's Little League is pharming all the batting helmets, and we're having a heckuva time making the boys keep THEIR OWN DANGED CAPS on their OWN HEADS!

I got the Action Alert, and Rec'd HInz's Bracelet Blog at RS, as well as GC's blog, and had some fun troll-hunting on Dave in Fla's excellent blog.

Ahhh, the smell of Burnt Troll in the morning(Impotent-Wisdom...you can put lipstick on it, but it's still your left hand...lol)

Steve Foley's picture

... As I said the story as written has all the legs it needs! And it holds water just fine...

I don't need you to tell me about Obama's character or how the MSM will give him a pass on this as I've been witnessing this and reporting on it for years now!

I never championed the Idea of this going any further than the blogesphere and your insinuation that I did is completely unwarranted.

Thanks!

66chevelle's picture

I should have made it clear that the only thing I think Haigin88 got right was that the story would be given no legs by the MSM, which would ignore it or at best soft-pedal it like the NPR interviewer did in March. I did not think he meant the story was false, just anti-Obama and thus destined for oblivion or spin by the MSM.

Everything else Haigin88 said to dismiss the story, because he had a problem with the timeline or seeming contradictions in later stories about the bracelet, I emphatically disagree with.

I've read and respect the work you've done on this and many other topics over the years. It burns me up that Obama made a callous, calculated decision to dishonor Sgt Jopek against at least one parent's wishes, knowing that he would be given cover by the MSM..

I am in complete agreement with you that the story holds water and should be spread far and wide in the blogospher, and, as i noted in another comment here, I have rec'd David Hinz's story at RS. If it turns just one voter against Obama, it is worth it.

Whew. Are we good ,yet:? :>)

Steve Foley's picture

...this guy registered just to leave this comment so my reply was a bit of baiting...

when I read your reply to me it rubbed me the wrong way.

Thanks for the clarification!!!

66chevelle's picture

when he was probably still lurking, just to draw him out, but events intervened at home. Time is of the essence when hunting the hit-and -run moby.

Also forgot that I am wearing my wig and sunglasses. I'm blooch, if you didn't already know;>)

speciallist's picture
Oh wait ....Markos will vote for him...sorry
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